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A Random Writing and Messy Grammar

As I wrote before about bullying,

(Read here) I become a humorous person. But while I’m trying to adapt to it, I have to learn more and more about become humorous person.

As we know that Indonesian always basa basi when we’re chatting and hangout together, I meet all kinds of people. Almost everyone who know me, they all know that I always insert jokes in some conversations, in the end, people who know me only briefly do that too excessively.

Something like talking about my physics or my family with jokes. I’ll make it become humor and take it easy if we are best friend, but if we just know each other who don’t have frequent meetings or just friend who don’t know me so well, its too much and I’ll take it as mockery and insult.

For example when Habib Jafar said to Onad, “Udah kafir ga amanah, lagi!” When he came late, it would be a joke and we’ll laugh together. But it would be a different case if someone who didn’t know Onad well told him that.

Everyone has an upper limit to their acceptance for the level of their jokes, so when you have some relationship with other people you have to know the limits jokes they have.

In this lebaran moment, I hide myself from people including my extended family because I wanna keep my mind positive and my feelings stay happy.

The point is we must learn to understand that the treatment of everyone cannot be average.

Lets make this Eid even more blessed by taking care of our speech.

SNA

1 Syawal 1444 H

Apr 22, 2023